Hey everyone, Tae here! I'm sitting with this amazing crab grilled cheese sandwich I made myself - honestly probably the best sandwich I've ever made! While enjoying this delicious meal, I wanted to answer some questions y'all have been asking after my last two videos.
A lot of people have been wondering why I don't just have my own baby. Truth is, not everybody's built the same way. I have Dad energy, not Mom energy. Even though I've been dealing with my menstrual cycle since I was 12, I'm still shocked by it to this day. It's not that I'm not capable of carrying a baby or being a single mom, but that's just not what I want for myself. If that's how things end up happening, fine, but if I can avoid putting myself in that situation, why would I?
I really appreciate all the people offering their uteruses to me. But the reason I asked this specific woman (Ebony) is because she has certain qualities that I consider motherhood-worthy. I'm not looking for a surrogate - I want to pour into a child's life as a partner.
Some of y'all asked if Ebony even likes women. Yes, she does. I've seen her past, trust me.
A more complicated question is why I didn't just decide to be in a relationship with her. Our relationship is pretty complex. It started off more business-oriented, then translated into personal, and potentially romantic territory. These are things we'll explore in upcoming videos.
Many of you are curious about whether I've ever been intimate with Ebony. The opportunity has definitely come up multiple times - she's a very attractive woman. There have been some kisses (mostly drunk ones), but to preserve what we have, I've never taken it all the way, and I think she hasn't either. I absolutely need her in my life.
I've been hesitant about moving toward a relationship for two main reasons. First, I've been in relationships that didn't work out, and I'm trying to process why so I don't make the same mistakes. Second, sometimes I struggle wondering if I'm worthy enough for her because she's a different type of woman. With some women, things just hit different, and you can't approach them just any kind of way.
The most common question I got was "What did she say? Did she agree to have your baby?" I'm honestly surprised how many people automatically assume it's a no. Hello, I'm a badass! Do you know who I am? It's hard to say no to me!
But if you want to know her answer, you'll have to watch my next time
