Today, while filming a new video with Nicolas, we ended up having a deep and heartfelt conversation—one that left a lasting impression on me and made me think about the true meaning of authenticity in the online world. What she shared was too valuable to keep to myself, so I want to take a moment to tell you all about it.
As we were setting up, Nicolas opened up about how she approaches creating content, and it was clear that she speaks from a place of honesty and self-awareness. She told me, without hesitation, that she’s exactly the same person on camera as she is off. There’s no act, no manufactured version of herself, and definitely no "YouTube personality" she switches into when the red light comes on. What you see in her videos—that’s the real Nicolas. She made it clear that she’s never been interested in pretending to be someone else just to please an audience or gain followers. That, in itself, was refreshing to hear.
We dove into a conversation about how some content creators live what she called a “double life.” Nicolas admitted that idea seems absolutely exhausting to her. She couldn’t imagine having to constantly maintain two versions of herself: one for the public and one in private. She said that even though some people might be capable of doing that, for her, it would be emotionally draining and mentally taxing. Living a lie, even just online, is still living a lie—and that kind of pressure builds up over time.
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One story in particular really stood out. Nicolas told me about a woman she once knew—someone who built her entire online presence around falsehoods. This person fabricated nearly every detail of her life: her marital status, her job, her lifestyle, even things as small as her daily routine. It was all smoke and mirrors. For an entire year, she kept up the act. But eventually, as it often happens, the truth came to light. Everything fell apart, and her audience discovered the deception. Nicolas told me she was stunned—not only by the depth of the lies but by how that woman could even keep track of all those fabrications. “I could never do that,” she laughed. “I’m a terrible liar—I’d get caught instantly.”
What really resonated with me was when Nicolas admitted that trying to lie or be someone else just isn’t sustainable—especially when you're filming constantly. “When you do YouTube this much,” she said, “there’s just no way you could keep your lies straight. It’s only a matter of time before the truth shows up on camera.” And in a world where content is being consumed by millions, people are quick to pick up on inconsistencies.
Nicolas also touched on something so many of us can relate to: the journey of self-discovery. She shared that when she was younger, like many people, she often tried to fit into molds or be what others expected of her. But as she grew older, she began embracing her true voice. “Now,” she told me, “I’ve learned to speak my truth. I don’t let anyone change who I am anymore.” That kind of self-assurance and maturity is something that only comes with time—and often, experience.
One of the most powerful things Nicolas said was how thankful she is to have started her YouTube channel as an adult. She believes that if she had jumped into the platform at a younger age, the pressure and temptation might have led her down a different path. “Sometimes,” she said, “when you get money or fame too early, you don’t know how to handle it. You can end up making decisions you regret.” But now, at this stage in her life, she feels grounded. She’s wiser. She’s learned how to navigate her success with grace and make choices that align with her values.
Listening to her, I felt a deep sense of admiration. Nicolas reminded me of the importance of staying grounded in who we are—especially in a digital space that often rewards appearances over substance. Her words were more than just advice; they were a genuine life lesson about integrity, honesty, and the freedom that comes with being yourself.
I walked away from that conversation feeling uplifted, inspired, and reminded of the kind of energy I want to bring to my own content. What Nicolas shared wasn’t just for me—it’s something I think we all need to hear. And that’s why I wanted to share it with you today.
Stay true. Be real. And don’t be afraid to be yourself—on or off camera.
