Hey everyone! I’m Lou, and today I want to share my thoughts on a very special collaboration with Tasha—something I’ve been looking forward to for a long time.
Starting the Day on No Sleep
We honestly only got two hours of sleep before filming this video. Why? Because we decided to spend the whole night getting to know each other. At first, I was just going to jump right into filming, but Tasha messaged me and suggested we spend some time connecting first—and that turned out to be a brilliant idea.
The three of us—me, Tasha, and her sister Jessica—stayed up super late just talking. It was the perfect icebreaker, and I felt an instant bond with them.
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Seafood Boil & Food Challenges
We had planned a seafood boil, even though Tasha and Jessica aren’t the biggest fans. I told them I’d try it first—if it was good, I’d keep eating; if not, well… we’d all know.
Our menu included:
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Snow crab legs
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Corn
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Crawfish
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Tasha’s special sauce (which I’ve been curious about for years!)
Tasting Tasha’s sauce was emotional for me. I’ve watched her dip potatoes and everything into that sauce for so long, and I just knew it was different from anything I’d had before—the onions were sliced longer, the ingredients were unique. And finally, I got to try it!
Questions from Subscribers
On Life Changes Over the Past Year
When asked about the biggest change I’ve experienced, I shared that I’ve finally found my confidence and my voice. I used to be so easygoing, often compromising even when it didn’t sit right with me. But now, after leaving my old situation and starting my healing journey, I’ve learned to stand up for myself.
On My Current Life
Life’s been treating me really well. I’m in a season of self-discovery—something I never had the space to do before. Life now feels beautiful and rich, and every day I’m learning something new.
On Love
I want to be clear about one thing: I love women, I worship women, and I will always be in relationships with women. The real question is whether I’m considering men this month or this year, because women will always be part of my life.
Truth or Drink – The Challenge Segment
This part had me nervous! Jessica came with 14 questions from her “Scorpio mind,” and we were only allowed to take three drinks instead of answering.
Some questions seriously made me blush and tremble. There were some I had to drink to avoid answering in detail, but there were others I was happy to open up about.
When asked the last time I spoke to my ex, I shared that it was over two years ago—back when I was still living in DC and she was still trying to convince me to do videos.
Hypothetical Date Night Plans
One cute question was: if I took Tasha on a date, what would I do? I said we’d start with dinner—and I’d want to feed her, wipe her mouth, and order for her (if she let me). Then I’d open every door for her and take her to a private karaoke spot in New York. I think we’d have so much fun with karaoke!
Personal Experiences
At the end, there was a bonus question about the most satisfying experience. Though a little shy, I admitted that I enjoy natural sounds more than music, and I like having control in a relationship.
Wrapping Up a Great Day
This video meant a lot to me. Collaborating with Tasha wasn’t just work—it was a chance to build a friendship with someone truly amazing. We clicked so well, it felt like I’d known her forever.
Even though the seafood boil didn’t turn out as tasty as we hoped, that just means next time we’ll cook it ourselves—and I know there’ll be more collabs ahead!
Thanks so much for watching the video. I hope you enjoyed seeing us laugh, connect, and learn more about each other. See you in the next one!
– Lou
