Panic Strikes When I See My Son Passing Black Stool

When My Son’s Body Sends a Warning

There are times as a mother when the moments I fear most aren’t about my kids doing something risky, but when they’re sick and I don’t know how to help. Sitting in the car with Darius today, I realized that caring about my child’s health has become a natural instinct, something I can’t turn off.

When the Stomach Sends a Signal
“Does your stomach hurt?” I asked when I saw Darius frown in the middle of his meal. He nodded, pressing his hand against his stomach with discomfort. As a mom, I know our bodies sometimes react in unexpected ways. It could be from overeating, from nerves, or just an unlucky day.

“Do you want to stop eating?” I asked, but he shook his head. He always tries to finish what he starts—just like me. But I also know that sometimes resting is more important than pushing through.

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Lessons from Pepto Bismol
I remembered the story Darius once told me about drinking Pepto Bismol after a spicy food challenge. Three days without using the bathroom, and when he finally did, his stool was black as coal. At first, I was really worried. Black stool can mean serious health problems. But then I recalled that Pepto Bismol can cause that side effect.

“Mom, why is my poop black?” he asked anxiously at the time. I explained it was just from the medicine, but deep down I was still tense. That’s motherhood—you may know the reason, but the worry never goes away.

“If it stays black, then we’ll have another conversation,” I told him. Thankfully, everything went back to normal afterward.

Ginger Ale and Old Remedies
“Why do people drink Ginger Ale for stomachaches?” Darius asked one day. I smiled, remembering my childhood. My grandmother always gave me a can of Ginger Ale whenever I felt sick to my stomach.

“I think it’s because it has less sugar than Coke,” I explained. “And maybe the ginger flavor helps calm the stomach.” I wasn’t sure about the science, but I knew that sometimes those old remedies work because they bring comfort and reassurance.

I thought back to when I was little—my mom always had simple but effective ways to help me feel better. Maybe not always medically proven, but the love and care behind them was always the best medicine.

Motherhood Means Constant Worry
Watching Darius push through his meal despite the stomachache, I felt both proud and worried. Proud that he’s strong and determined, but concerned that sometimes he pushes himself too hard.

“You don’t have to finish it all,” I gently reminded him. “What matters is that you feel well.”

That’s the lesson I always want my kids to carry with them: health comes before everything else. Whether it’s a video, a meal, or any task—nothing is more important than listening to your body and taking care of yourself.

The Signs We Shouldn’t Ignore
As a mom who’s spent years caring for my children, I’ve learned that our bodies always find a way to tell us when something’s wrong. A stomachache can be as simple as overeating, but it can also be stress, worry, or another health issue.

“How do you feel now?” I asked after a while. Darius said he felt a little better. Maybe just talking about it and being heard helped ease the discomfort.

The Lesson in Self-Care
Moments like these remind me that health isn’t just about not being sick—it’s about understanding and listening to your body. I want my kids to know there’s nothing wrong with taking a break, nothing wrong with saying, “I need to stop.”

Modern life makes us forget that our bodies need respect and care. Sometimes, the wisest thing we can do is pause and pay attention to what our body is telling us.

And as their mother, I’ll always be here—to listen, to worry, and to remind them that their health will always be my number one priority.