Cooking for my husband has always been more than just putting food on the table—it’s one of the ways I express love, care, and dedication in our marriage. Over the years, I’ve noticed so many different perspectives when it comes to this topic. Some women proudly share how they cook daily for their husbands, while others say that now that they’re retired, they enjoy going out together on the weekends. I admire those choices because each relationship has its own rhythm, and there is no single formula for love.
I want to make it clear—I don’t believe there’s anything wrong if a wife doesn’t cook for her husband. If that works for their relationship, then that’s perfectly fine. What matters most is understanding, respect, and happiness between two people. I’ve always believed that love should never be judged by outsiders, because every couple knows what works best for them.
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For me personally, cooking is one of my love languages. It’s how I serve my husband and show him that I care. Even with my busy schedule, balancing video content, family time, and so many other responsibilities, I still make it a priority to prepare meals at home. The kitchen becomes my space of love, where I pour energy and thought into every dish. It’s not always easy, but for me, it’s worth it. When my husband sits down and enjoys a meal I’ve prepared, it makes me feel like I’ve given him something deeper than just food—I’ve given him comfort and love.
That being said, I don’t carry the responsibility alone. Darius also steps into the kitchen and cooks meals for us. His effort means so much, especially on days when I’m stretched thin with filming and managing everything else. If you’ve seen me on my channel “B Love’s Beyond,” you know how packed my schedule can get. His support reminds me that marriage is about teamwork, and that care should always go both ways.
I truly believe that in any relationship, small acts of service—whether it’s cooking, helping with chores, or simply being there—can strengthen the bond between two people. For some, cooking is the way; for others, it might be something completely different. The beauty lies in the fact that love can be expressed in countless ways, and none is less valuable than the other.
At the end of the day, the goal isn’t perfection. It’s not about who does more or who does less—it’s about creating a balance where both partners feel valued and supported. If you cook for your spouse, that’s beautiful. If you don’t, but you show your love in other ways, that’s just as meaningful. Love thrives when there’s mutual respect, effort, and joy in the relationship.
Always remember to keep God at the center of everything you do. With faith, love, and understanding, everything else falls into place. Sending peace, blessings, and love your way—thank you for being on this journey with me.
