I was sitting with Darius, enjoying a simple cupcake, when I felt the need to open up about something that’s been weighing heavily on me. We’ve talked before about scams on Facebook, but today I want to be even more real about this issue—because it’s not just a minor inconvenience, it’s a problem that continues to hurt people every single day.
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Darius and I got into a conversation about who is most vulnerable to misinformation online. At first, I said I’ve noticed a lot of women falling for these scams, but Darius quickly challenged me—reminding me that this isn’t just a “women’s” issue. And he’s right. It’s deeper than gender. It’s about generations, habits, and how prepared we are to navigate a world flooded with information, both real and fake.
The truth is, misinformation doesn’t discriminate. Anyone can fall for it. But here’s the real danger: too many people are scrolling, clicking, and entering their personal details—credit card numbers, addresses—without stopping to think, Where is this website coming from? Who’s really behind it? That’s when the damage is done.
This is where media literacy comes in. Just because you see something on Facebook, TikTok, or anywhere online doesn’t make it real. You’ve got to dig deeper, cross-check sources, and ask the right questions: Is this the only place I’ve seen this information? Does this website look trustworthy? If the deal sounds too good to be true—could it be a scam?
Here’s the difference I see: younger generations like Gen Z are being taught to question everything they see online. They’ve grown up with the internet and understand how easy it is to manipulate information. But for older generations—mine included—it’s harder. We were raised to believe what we saw and heard without much skepticism. That mindset makes us more vulnerable today.
And the scams aren’t slowing down. On TikTok Shop and other platforms, I’ve seen videos advertising outrageous deals—like “7 cardigans for $20.” Think about that for a moment. How can seven well-made sweaters cost less than a single lunch? It doesn’t add up. Yet people keep clicking, keep entering their details, and end up disappointed—or worse, having to dispute fraudulent charges with their banks.
What frustrates me most is that some people even message me accusing me of scamming them, when all I can say is: “That’s not me. You’ve been tricked.” A quality cardigan alone costs a couple of dollars to make—so why believe you can get a whole set for pocket change? We’ve got to learn to stop, think, and protect ourselves.
Darius and I both agree on one thing: scammers are exploiting trust. And while yes, you can call your bank, file disputes, and maybe get your money back, that doesn’t solve the deeper problem. Why are so many people still falling into these traps? Why are scammers able to thrive off our blind trust?
I’ll tell you this: it’s time to stop being so trusting. Protect your information. Question every unbelievable deal. And most importantly, don’t give scammers the power to take advantage of you.
