You know, people often ask me, “Blove, how come you don’t clap back when folks talk bad about you?” And the truth is simple: I don’t need to. Every battle that rises against me—my Father already has it handled. Whenever something comes up, I go to Jesus and say, “Lord, this is what’s happening.” And I promise you, I pray for everyone who speaks on my name, good or bad.
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Let’s be clear—I don’t wait until they tear me down. I pray for them before they even open their mouths. Yes, even when people wish harm or speak out of jealousy or bitterness, I still speak blessings over their lives. Why? Because the Word teaches us to pray for those who persecute us. That’s not easy—but it’s powerful. In the end, I trust that God will take care of it all, whether it turns out the way I expected or not.
Sometimes, we carry guilt thinking we’ve done something so wrong. But let me tell you, that’s the enemy whispering lies into your spirit. We all fall short. If we were perfect, we wouldn’t need Jesus. Making a mistake doesn’t mean you need to run from God or give Him the silent treatment for 3–4 days. He’s not like people. He doesn’t flip on you. His love is consistent. He’s steady, and He’s always there, arms open wide.
After six years on YouTube, I’ve watched God bless me in ways that still blow my mind. The income flows, the doors open—and not because I’m chasing money, but because God trusts me with it. He knows where my heart is. I’ll never worship wealth, success, or material things. I put Him first—always. That’s why the blessings come.
I’m committed to living out the fruit of the Spirit—all nine of them. It’s not always easy. Sometimes, you want to say something back, to defend yourself. But that’s why I keep my mouth closed. Not out of weakness, but out of strength. Peace takes power. And I choose peace.
Look, I might have 40–50 more years on this earth—maybe less. And that’s not a long time when you think about eternity. So, I have to be intentional about how I live. I want to hear those words one day: “Well done, good and faithful servant.” I want to meet my Savior and spend forever in heaven with Him.
And if you’re watching this or reading these words, and it doesn’t all make sense—that’s okay. I know it might sound like a foreign language to some. But if your heart is curious, if your spirit feels something stirring, then I encourage you to seek Him. Ask God into your heart. Learn about salvation. It’s never too late to begin again.
