A Mother’s Heartfelt Story
Today I'd like to invite you into a heartfelt conversation I had with my son, Zaddy, about his life in Las Vegas. After over a year relocating from Houston, he’s experienced life-changing moments that I’m excited to share with you.
New Beginnings in Sin City
When Zaddy first spoke about his new life in Vegas, I heard a subtle shift in his tone—confidence replacing uncertainty. What once felt like a daunting year of adjustment has transformed into a sense of belonging and purpose.
“Mom, the pool at my apartment complex is always packed,” he said with enthusiasm. “Especially on Mondays, Sundays, and Tuesdays—because casino and hospitality workers are off those days.”
It warms my heart to know he’s fitting in so well. Yet, I can’t help but worry—Las Vegas is also a city of allure and excess.
First Vegas Experiences
His First Club Night at Omnia
Zaddy described his first visit to Omnia, the iconic nightclub at Caesar’s Palace. He went for a friend’s sister-in-law’s birthday, and came back with some interesting observations:
“It was fun, but I realized clubs just aren’t for me. A Jack and Coke is $30. That’s $150 for five drinks—insane!”
His pragmatic budgeting left me relieved—he’s not being swept up by lavish temptations.
Reflections on Strip Clubs
This next part surprised me—but also made me proud. Zaddy candidly shared that although he had been to a strip club, it wasn’t his cup of tea.
“I don’t like paying women just to dance. I’m not judging, but I don’t want to spend money on that.”
However, he admitted that he sometimes spent around $400 just so he wouldn’t appear “stingy” among friends. I understand—social pressure can push us into uncomfortable choices.
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Love, Friendships, and Life Plans
Straightforward Romance
Zaddy approaches women in the simplest way possible:
“Hi, what’s your name?”
No games. No complicated moves.
He even has a “Walmart strategy”—a place he believes is full of beautiful people:
“Walmart never fails. I see someone attractive every time. I always dress nice when I go there.”
I couldn’t help but laugh—his strategy may be unconventional, but it's genuine.
Planning for the Future
One conversation in particular made me both proud and anxious:
“Mom, I plan to have a baby within three years, before I turn 33. You’ll be a grandma.”
I smiled at his clarity but reminded him:
“Make sure you’re married before having kids, okay?”
New Friendships and Support Network
“Mom,” he said, “I’ve known Bill for just three hours—and we already went clubbing together. I'm even close with his wife.”
Knowing he’s building strong connections in a new city brings me so much comfort. It’s a reminder that good friends are essential when you’re far from home
Personal Style & Self-Care
Zaddy’s considering a makeover—new grooming, a tattoo sleeve, and more swim trunks. He only had one and hates the color:
“Blue doesn’t match my style. In Vegas, pool days happen all the time. I need at least seven pairs.”
We decided that red suits him better. I encouraged him to invest in swimwear that looks good and lasts.
Adventure in the Great Outdoors
He recounted a hiking trip through “The Narrows” in Zion National Park—a trail where you have to wade through rocky, waist-deep water.
“I hiked about seven miles before turning back. My feet hurt so badly from the rocks. Someone even got injured and had to be rescued by helicopter.”
I felt a surge of pride mixed with worry—he’s pushing his limits, but safety always matters.
A Lesson Learned at the Tables
Zaddy also reflected on his gambling experience. He once turned $100 into $1,000 playing roulette—but lost it all in the end.
“I knew I should’ve stopped when I was ahead, but I kept thinking I could win more.”
That was my moment to remind him: “Vegas is called Sin City for a reason. You’re lucky—it didn’t hook you. Many come and lose everything.”
Lessons We Can All Take Away
From Zaddy’s experiences, I’ve distilled some key wisdom:
On Vegas:
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It’s full of entertainment—but that entertainment comes at a cost.
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Avoid it if you struggle with addiction.
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Set clear spending limits and stick to them.
On Life:
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Good friendships are priceless far from home.
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Be honest about what you like—and what you don’t.
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Plan ahead for the future—but also live in the moment.
Pride, Faith, and Family
As a mother, I’m overflowing with pride at his growth. Despite the temptations and glitz of Las Vegas, Zaddy has kept a level head and established meaningful goals.
My husband and I are planning a trip to visit in November to see his life firsthand. I can already tell by his voice how much joy and fulfillment he’s experiencing.
“Vegas is hard to leave now, Mom,” he told me. And I understand. Sometimes you have to leave home to truly find yourself.
In every video we end with this reminder:
“Put God first in everything you do.”
Final Thoughts
This is Zaddy’s journey—an honest, open-hearted story of a young man navigating life, temptation, relationships, and self-discovery in one of America’s most exciting cities. I hope his experiences serve as both inspiration and caution for others on a similar path.
