In a recent confession-style video, one of the most heartfelt questions Darius asked Nicole was whether she had ever thought about becoming a long-term part of his family.
An Awkward Question
“From the first time you met Dalvin until now, have you ever sat down and thought about being a part of this family in the future?” Darius asked, his tone gentle and careful. He clarified that he wasn’t talking about m*arriage or anything like that—just the idea of truly considering this family as her own, like coming over for Christmas or feeling a lifelong sense of belonging here.
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Nicole’s Honest Answer
Nicole responded with honesty: “Honestly… no, I’ve never thought that far.”
She explained that while she definitely sees them as family, she’s also aware that one day, when Dalvin finds someone new, this chapter will naturally come to an end.
“I understand that when someone new comes along, I won’t be part of it anymore. Not because you guys wouldn’t welcome me, but because I know that chapter would be over,” Nicole shared.
Surprise After 4 Years
What’s touching is that Nicole admitted she never thought she’d return to this house after being away for four years. “Four years is a really long time,” she said, visibly emotional.
A First Taste of Family
Perhaps the most heartwarming moment came when Nicole said: “You all are the first real family who ever treated me like this. This is new for me.”
She added that she never wanted to feel entitled or push herself into anyone’s space, acknowledging that she’s not the kind of person to just show up at someone’s doorstep uninvited.
Warm Response from Darius
Darius reassured Nicole that she is always welcome:
“You’re always welcome here, you know that. We’re not those kind of people.”
He also emphasized that no matter what happens between her and Dalvin, this family bond doesn’t have to change. Even if they just ran into each other on the street someday, there’d be no bad blood.
A Thoughtful Reflection on Family
This conversation shows how deeply Nicole respects boundaries and understands relationship dynamics. She’s not someone who assumes or expects too much—she chooses to cherish the present instead.
Being treated kindly by a family is something new for Nicole, and that makes this connection all the more rare and meaningful.
