My heart is broken

About Those Who Hurt Us

Hey everyone, today while I was eating, I wanted to share something that’s been on my heart — something I believe a lot of people need to hear. It’s about those who have hurt us, and how we should deal with it.

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When Someone Hurts You

Have you ever been in a situation where someone hurt you deeply? They did you wrong — maybe lied, betrayed, or treated you unfairly — yet you stayed humble, said nothing, didn’t fight back. Then suddenly, you start noticing things falling apart in their life. Nothing seems to go right for them. Their world is filled with chaos, no peace, no progress.

I’ve seen this many, many times in my life. And let me tell you, all you have to do is sit back and watch.

About Karma

Let’s talk about karma for a moment. When you do wrong to others — when you speak evil against them, deceive them, steal from them, or even betray them in the worst way — you think you got away with it? No baby, no you didn’t. It’s coming. It will come, and when it does, it shows up strong.

Sometimes it’s good karma, sometimes it’s bad. Whatever you put out, that’s what comes back to you. You plant bad seeds, you’ll reap bad fruit. You plant good, you’ll reap good.

In my 49 years of life — almost 49 now — I have never seen a single person who hurt me, my family, or anyone else go without facing their karma. Never. God has never failed me.

What You Shouldn’t Do

Don’t seek revenge. Don’t do it. Two wrongs don’t make a right, baby. Let it go. It’s not worth your time.

I promise you — I swear on my name, Be Love’s Life or Bethany, whichever you call me — they will get what they gave. You just have to sit still, relax, and watch it unfold.

Don’t speak. Don’t act. Don’t retaliate. That’s the worst thing you can do. You want good karma to come your way, right? Then stay still.

Be Careful With Your Words

You must be very, very careful about who you talk about, who you hurt on purpose. Be careful, baby, so careful.

You never know who that person might become in the future. You could be speaking badly about someone who’s destined to be a prophet, a pastor, a changed soul. So stay kind. Don’t say a word. Because let me tell you, God will always protect you.

What I’ve Learned

When someone hurts you, get ready — because your blessing is on the way. I promise you that. They’ll look at you like, “How did that happen?” And oh, that makes them mad. But I love it — because the more people try to tear you down, the brighter you shine, baby. You’ll shine and shine, and I promise you that.

What God has for you, no one can take away. Nobody. When God blesses you, you don’t have to worry about your enemies taking it — because it came straight from Him. And when He blesses you, no demon in hell can touch it.

God Will Bless You in Front of Your Enemies

You will keep getting blessed, keep thriving. And I’m not just talking about money — it can be health, stability, or favor.

If there’s anything I want more than money, it’s favor. Favor is the best thing anyone can have. If God’s favor is on your life, the sky’s the limit. You just need His favor — that’s it, baby.

Why Their Life Will Never Be Peaceful

Those who constantly hurt others will never have peace. Never. Their life will stay in turmoil, no rest, no blessing. They keep attacking others and can’t understand why their own life is falling apart.

They ask, “Why can’t I have one peaceful day? One day of rest? One day of blessing?” It’s because of how they treat people.

Don’t hurt God’s creation. When you harm others, trust me — you’ll find no rest. No peace. Never.

Karma From the Past

Let me tell you something — those bad seeds you planted 30 or 40 years ago? They’re coming back now. You wonder, “Why is my life like this?” It’s because of how you treated people long ago.

You thought you got away with it, but no baby, it’s catching up with you.

My Attitude Toward It

Now let me speak about myself. Even when they’re going through their bad karma, I still pray for them. Does that make sense? I pray it doesn’t get too bad, that they can handle it.

That’s just me. Some people say, “No way! I want them to feel every bit of what they did to me — and more!” But me? I just say, “Lord, have mercy on them.”

Who really wants to see someone suffer? Who wants to see someone hurting or broken? But they’re in that position because of how they treated others.

My Final Advice

Y’all, sit still and watch. I promise you — just stay humble and quiet. Whatever they did to hurt you, don’t try to get back at them. Two wrongs don’t make a right. Let it go. It’s not worth it.

God will protect you. When I say He protects you, I mean He really does. People think they’re destroying you, think your world is falling apart — but while they’re plotting, God is blessing you right in front of them.

God will bless you in the presence of your enemies. I promise you that.

At the end of the day, baby, you’re winning. You’re not losing — you’re always winning.

The Battle Isn’t Yours

Some people say, “I’ll fight back. I’ll get revenge.” But you don’t have to do a thing. God’s got you. You know Yolanda Adams’ song? “It’s Not Yours, It’s the Lord’s.” That’s right — the battle isn’t yours, it’s His.

I don’t have to fight, baby. No battles here, no harsh words — because everything will be handled. People will always have something to say, but you can’t let that break you. Keep living your life, baby. Just keep living.